‘Modern Love’: Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Therapist Terry Real Image

‘Modern Love’: Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Therapist Terry Real

25 May - 37 mins
Podcast Series The Daily

A session with Terry Real, a marriage and family therapist, can get uncomfortable. He’s known to mirror and amplify the emotions of his clients, sometimes cursing and nearly yelling, often in an attempt to get men in touch with the emotions they’re not used to honoring.

Real says men are often pushed to shut off their expression of vulnerability when they’re young as part of the process of becoming a man. That process, he says, can lead to myriad problems in their relationships. He sees it as his job to pull them back into vulnerability and intimacy, reconfiguring their understanding of masculinity in order to build more wholesome and connected families.

In this episode, Real explains why...

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