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Not so Christian Brothers

Podcast Series Not so Christian Brothers

Not so Christian Brothers

An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between. 

It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.

With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.

These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.

Hosted on Acast. See acast....

Series Episodes

Wooden Spoon Trauma & The "Sterile Room" Secrets | The Royal Seal Mystery

Wooden Spoon Trauma & The "Sterile Room" Secrets | The Royal Seal Mystery

Does your past define your response to pressure? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers start with a deep dive into "Wooden Spoon Trauma"—the unique brand of discipline that shaped a generation of Irish children. Justin reveals why his microphone is currently taped to a wooden spoon and how the threat of the drawer opening was often more powerful than the spoon itself. The conversation then shifts from the kitchen to the "Sterile Room." Justin shares insights from a high-level briefing on global stability, discussing the "Psychology of Conflict" and why the current global "script" feels like it’s accelerating toward an inevitable conclusion. Finally, things take a surreal turn as Colm shares a story about the British Royal Family and a "Royal Seal" that has Producer Rebecca questioning reality. In this episode, we uncover: The Discipline Hierarchy: Why the wooden spoon was the "Ninja" weapon of the Irish household.The Global Script: The truth about current tensions and the "Theater of Power" in the Middle East.The Sterile Room: What happens when global strategists discuss the "unthinkable."The Royal Mystery: Colm’s claims about Princess Diana and why the room was locked. 📅 TUNE IN: Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6 PM After Show: Every Sunday @ 8 AM ⏱️ Chapter Timings 00:00 – The Wooden Spoon Mic: A mother’s weapon of choice.00:42 – Wooden Spoon Trauma: The psychology of the "Entry Point" threat.05:15 – The Geography of Conflict: Why the "World War" narrative is trending.10:30 – The Theatre of Power: Analyzing the moves of global players.15:20 – The Sterile Room: Justin’s briefing on the "Truth" of global stability.22:45 – Strategic Shifts: What the mainstream media isn't telling you.28:11 – The Royal Mystery: Colm, the "Royal Seal," and Princess Diana.29:11 – Wrapping Up: Fantasy land or a hidden history? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

29 mins

2 April Finished

"I Was Incensed": The Gender Debate Fallout | The South African River Mystery

"I Was Incensed": The Gender Debate Fallout | The South African River Mystery

The fallout from Thursday’s show is real. Producer Rebecca joins the conversation from South Africa to voice her frustration over Justin and Colm’s "Manosphere" discussion. Is the "sidelining of men" a reality, or is it simply a shift in a social balance that has been one-sided for centuries? Justin doubles down on the psychology of young men under 25, citing the data that suggests a growing "minority" feeling among males, while Rebecca argues that the "ascendancy" of women is a hard-fought correction of history. From the "austere" walls of Justin’s mystery room to the viral influence of figures like Scott Galloway and Jimmy Carr, this is an unfiltered dive into the shifting social landscape of 2026. In this episode, we uncover: The Global Feed: Recording from Ireland, France, and the River Cowie in South Africa.The "Incensed" Producer: Why Rebecca had to speak up about the sidelining of men.The Ascendancy Argument: Are women taking over, or just catching up?.The Jimmy Carr Paradox: Why comedy and "man-influencers" aren't solving the underlying psychological crisis.The Minority Feeling: The statistics behind the disenfranchised young male. 📅 TUNE IN: Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6 PM After Show: Every Sunday @ 8 AM ⏱️ Chapter Timings 00:00 – Geolocation Chaos: From the home studio to the "prison room."00:37 – United by Chaos: The "Strap On" incident (again).00:54 – Rebecca Speaks: "I was getting incensed on Thursday."02:30 – The Manosphere Fallout: Defining what "sidelined" actually means.05:45 – The 100-Year Fight: Rebecca on the struggle for female rights.08:10 – The Data of Success: Why the scripts for men and women are changing.11:00 – The Truth About the "Minority": Young men under 25.11:44 – The Jimmy Carr Factor: Can entertainment fix social disenfranchisement?12:08 – Closing: Are we "mad or mental"? You decide. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 mins

29 March Finished

Men are Being Sidelined": The Truth About the Manisphere | The South African Escape

Men are Being Sidelined": The Truth About the Manisphere | The South African Escape

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Is the social balance of power shifting too far, or is it a necessary evolution? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin are "United by Chaos" as they record from France and South Africa. After a "technological avalanche" destroyed their first attempt at recording, the brothers return to tackle one of the most sensitive topics in modern psychology: the "sidelining" of men. Justin dives deep into the "Manisphere" and the work of Scott Galloway, arguing that men under 25 are feeling increasingly marginalized as women move into the social and economic "ascendancy." It’s a raw, honest, and at times heated debate that leaves Producer Rebecca "hugely crossed" with Colm. Whether you agree or disagree, this is the conversation that everyone is having behind closed doors. In this episode, we uncover: The Global Tech Crisis: Why a skiing trip in France almost cancelled the show.Birth Certificate Proof: Colm and Justin confirm their shared DNA for the record.The "Manisphere" Debate: Why the term "sidelined" is triggering such a massive reaction.The Scott Galloway Effect: Analyzing the psychology of young men in 2026.Social Ascendancy: Who is really in the minority in the modern workforce? 📅 TUNE IN: Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6 PM After Show: Every Sunday @ 8 AM ⏱️ Chapter Timings 00:00 – The South African Mystery: Where is Rebecca?01:00 – United by Chaos: Proving we are legal brothers.04:30 – The French Avalanche: Why we had to re-record everything.10:15 – The Geography of Success: Recording across three continents.15:50 – The Truth About the Manisphere: Why men feel sidelined.22:10 – The "Ascendancy" Debate: The shifting power balance between genders.26:30 – The Minority Feeling: Why men under 25 are struggling to find their place.26:45 – Scott Galloway’s Warning: The data behind the debate.27:00 – Why Rebecca is "Crossed": A preview of the Sunday Aftershow. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 mins

26 March Finished

"We’re a Bunch of Sacks": The Truth About Irish Sexiness | Terry’s Feet Mystery

"We’re a Bunch of Sacks": The Truth About Irish Sexiness | Terry’s Feet Mystery

Following our St. Patrick’s Day main show, the brothers return for a "Seachtain na Gaeilge" (Irish Language Week) special. Colm explores his "Republican roots" with a radical plan for the Irish language, while Justin explains why his Dublin accent was his greatest asset during his time in London . The conversation takes a sharp turn into the "Psychology of Attraction." Are the Irish actually sexy, or are we just "pasty fat potatoes" that turn into "lobsters" the moment the sun comes out? Plus, we address the viral rumor of Colm’s supposed Boyzone audition and why Terry might be the next big star on OnlyFans—for his feet . In this episode, we uncover: The Language Revolution: Colm’s plan to reclaim Irish and "drop" English .The Accent Advantage: Why the Irish accent is a "game changer" abroadThe Boyzone Mystery: Did Colm really win a leather jacket at the 1993 auditions?.The "Sack" Debate: An honest (and brutal) look at Irish aesthetics and the "lobster" sun effect.The Household Ticker Tape: More on the mental load of running a family. 📅 TUNE IN: Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6 PM After Show: Every Sunday @ 8 AM ⏱️ Chapter Timings * 00:00 – Seachtain na Gaeilge: The "Cupla Focal" struggle. 01:00 – The Language Revolution: Colm’s Republican roots and the English "problem."01:57 – The "Strap In" Slip: Another accidental opening.02:30 – The "Sack" Debate: Are Irish people actually sexy?03:30 – Terry’s Secret Asset: The OnlyFans foot fetish business plan.07:47 – The Boyzone Rumor: Addressing the 1993 leather jacket audition.10:30 – Accent Psychology: Being a "prize" for the English.15:00 – The "Lobster" Effect: Irish skin vs. the Sun.17:10 – Closing: "Thanks Mommy" and the Protestant Producer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 mins

22 March Finished

The Irish Empire: From Gangs of New York to the CIA Mystery | St. Patrick’s Day Special

The Irish Empire: From Gangs of New York to the CIA Mystery | St. Patrick’s Day Special

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Is St. Patrick’s Day a celebration of culture or a masterclass in global branding? This week, the Not So Christian Brothersstrip back the green face paint to look at the Psychology of Irish Identity. Colm and Justin discuss the "Plastic Paddy" phenomenon and the strange cultural ritual of the "Kerry Jersey" appearing in the most unexpected corners of the world. The conversation takes a deep, historical turn into the "Theatre of Power." Colm explores how the Irish, once the bottom of the social ladder, built the skyscrapers of New York and formed powerful gangs that eventually transitioned into the highest levels of American politics. We look at the "Truth" behind the Kennedy legacy and the shadow cast by the CIA in one of history's greatest mysteries. In this episode, we uncover: The Subscription Mystery: Why only 7% of you are hitting the button (and why we need you).The Angelus Ritual: A minute of silence that stops a nation.The "Gangs" of Success: How Irish immigrants moved from the slums to the Oval Office.The Secret History: The connection between Irish power, the Kennedys, and the "Final Chapter".Cultural Branding: Why the world wants to be Irish for 24 hours. 📅 TUNE IN: Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6 PM After Show: Every Sunday @ 8 AM ⏱️ Chapter Timings 00:00 – The 7% Rule: Why your subscription matters.00:26 – The Angelus Mystery: Ireland’s minute of silence.02:40 – Plastic Paddies vs. The Real Deal: The St. Patrick’s Day divide.08:15 – The Lanzarote Syndrome: Why the Kerry Jersey is everywhere.14:50 – Building the Skyscrapers: The grit of the Irish immigrant.22:10 – The Theatre of Power: From Irish gangs to political dynasties.27:30 – The American Dream: How the Irish raised the profile of the world.28:11 – The CIA Mystery: The truth behind the Kennedy era. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

28 mins

19 March Finished

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