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Not so Christian Brothers

Podcast Series Not so Christian Brothers

Not so Christian Brothers

An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between. 

It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.

With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.

These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.

Hosted on Acast. See acast....

Series Episodes

Everybody’s Faking It (Even You)

Everybody’s Faking It (Even You)

Let’s be honest — we’re all full of sh*t. This week, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — rip apart the illusion of perfection we’ve built online and off. From filtered lives and fake humility to Irish denial, ego, and middle-aged crisis rebrands, they say the quiet part out loud. Colm calls out “bullsh*t wellness,” Justin admits he’s been just as guilty, and Rebecca lays down the truth about people who post “authentic” just to get attention. It’s funny, uncomfortable, and scarily relatable — a full-on takedown of modern self-delusion. 🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday — subscribe now and join the unholy honesty. You think you’re being real? You’re not — and neither are we. This episode of Not So Christian Brothers goes straight for the jugular: why everyone’s pretending, who’s fooling who, and how social media made us all addicted to lying. It’s fast, filthy, and full of uncomfortable truth. If you’ve ever posted a “no filter” selfie or humble-bragged about mindfulness — you might want to sit this one out. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & Colm’s rant on fake people 03:00 – The cult of “authentic” influencers 06:00 – Justin admits he’s played the same game 09:00 – Rebecca’s reality check: “Nobody’s that happy” 12:00 – The Irish art of denial 15:00 – Midlife rebrands & spiritual bullshit 18:00 – Truth bombs & uncomfortable laughter 21:00 – Sunday tease & a final jab at fake gratitude 🗓 Release Date: Thursday, 6 November 2025 🎙 Next Episode: Sunday, 9 November 2025 📢 New shows every Thursday & Sunday — on Spotify, Acast, Apple, and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 mins

6 November Finished

Brothers, Guilt & The Snowman: When Family Messes You Up

Brothers, Guilt & The Snowman: When Family Messes You Up

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This one hits hard. In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — drop the jokes (mostly) and dive into the emotional minefield of family, childhood, and guilt. Justin remembers being left behind in a house that didn’t feel safe, watching Colm build a snowman through the window. Colm swears he doesn’t remember doing it — and Rebecca isn’t letting him off the hook. What starts as a nostalgic story becomes a brutally honest conversation about survival, neglect, loneliness, and why Irish families never really talk about love — just guilt. It’s raw, revealing, and somehow still hilarious. 🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025. Ever carried guilt from your childhood? Or blamed your brother for turning you into who you are? Colm and Justin open old wounds (and old snowmen), with Rebecca playing referee. It’s part therapy, part sibling rivalry, and 100% Not So Christian. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & the “Snowman Story” 02:00 – Childhood memories vs selective amnesia 04:00 – Guilt, leaving home & who got left behind 06:00 – Rebecca calls out Irish emotional repression 08:00 – Sibling rivalry & the fight to be seen 10:00 – Family dysfunction, loneliness & love 12:00 – The red-pen parents & emotional grammar lessons 13:00 – Wrap-up, chaos & next week’s tease Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 mins

2 November Finished

Crying for Clicks: Are We All Addicted to Misery?

Crying for Clicks: Are We All Addicted to Misery?

Are we healing — or just performing pain for attention? This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan get brutally real about the age of emotional exhibitionism. From crying selfies and mental health influencers to therapy addiction and Irish repression, no one’s safe. Colm thinks we’ve replaced resilience with victimhood, Justin argues for real healing, and Rebecca calls out the hypocrisy on both sides. It’s funny, uncomfortable, and more honest than most therapy sessions. Everyone’s sad. Everyone’s online. And everyone’s telling you about it. Colm’s had enough of performative misery. Justin’s defending therapy. Rebecca’s trying to make sense of it all. It’s Irish honesty at its finest — sharp, savage, and weirdly comforting. If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at a crying influencer (or been one), this episode’s for you. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday — subscribe now so you never miss the chaos, comedy, or confession. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – 02:30: Oversharing, misery & the therapy epidemic02:30 – 06:00: Colm vs Justin — resilience or repression?06:00 – 09:30: Rebecca on empathy burnout & online sadness09:30 – 12:00: Irish mental health, male silence & dark humour12:00 – 15:30: Crying selfies & trauma as content15:30 – 18:00: When therapy becomes a brand18:00 – 21:00: Real talk — loneliness, loss & living offline21:00 – End: Sunday tease + a final jab at influencers 🎙 Next Episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025 📢 New episodes every Thursday and Sunday — on Spotify, Acast, Apple, and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 mins

30 October Finished

Beckhams, Billionaires & Bullshit: Power, Sex & Corruption

Beckhams, Billionaires & Bullshit: Power, Sex & Corruption

Sunday’s supposed to be holy — but not here. In this week’s Aftershow, Colm, Justin, and Rebecca dive straight into scandal, corruption, and why humans can’t handle power. It starts with Beckham’s affair, jumps to Epstein’s empire, and somehow ends up at Paul McCartney, Margaret Thatcher, and mommy fetishes. 💬 What they actually get into: Is Rebecca Loos brave or just bored?Why money, sex, and power always corrupt — and who’s worst at itJustin admits being “a power-hungry asshole” in his twentiesRebecca schools the lads on women’s real motivationsColm insists he’s “the least corrupt man alive” (no one believes him)And yes… it ends with another lesbian joke This is Not So Christian Brothers — unholy, uncensored, and impossible to stop listening to. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday 19 October 2025. Power, sex, greed — and David Beckham’s Sunday roast. Colm’s defending men again, Justin’s confessing to corruption, and Rebecca’s running circles around them both. It’s filthy, funny, and far too honest for a Sunday. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Sunday blasphemy & Mass talk 02:00 – Beckham, Rebecca Loos & revenge stories 04:00 – Epstein, Ghislaine & the corruption triangle: money, power, sex 06:00 – Men’s “three pillars” vs women’s “three truths” 07:30 – Justin admits his power addiction 09:00 – Paul McCartney, ego, and artistic narcissism 11:00 – Can women be corrupted — or are they worse when they are? 12:00 – Margaret Thatcher, affairs & fantasies 13:00 – Lesbian callback, chaos, and sign-off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 mins

26 October Finished

Woke, War & Wives: The World’s Gone Mad (Again)

Woke, War & Wives: The World’s Gone Mad (Again)

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This one’s an absolute ride. Colm gets accused of having “lesbian energy,” Justin tries to justify angry men, Rebecca calls out everyone’s hypocrisy — and somehow it all ends with aliens ditching Earth because we’re too boring. The gang dive head-first into: The rise of angry men and the backlash against “woke”Why politics is full of egos and zero compassionGolf wives, patriarchy, and public meltdownsWhether women make better (or worse) leadersHow the first murder — Cain & Abel — set the tone for humanity It’s blunt, funny, a bit mad, and exactly why you listen to Not So Christian Brothers. No filters. No safe takes. Just three voices tearing into the week’s chaos. 🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Thursday 23 October 2025. If you think the world’s lost the plot — you’re not alone. Colm’s ranting about militant lesbians, Justin’s defending dictators (kind of), and Rebecca’s trying to hold civilisation together. Somehow, it’s educational. Mostly, it’s just unholy fun. Chapter Timings00:00 – Are you a lesbian, Colm? (and other casual chaos) 05:00 – Angry men, woke culture & the incel problem 10:00 – Rory McIlroy, golf wives & patriarchal nonsense 15:00 – Putin, Trump, and why power always corrupts 20:00 – Cain & Abel → The first murder was family business 25:00 – Aliens are bored & AI is smarter than us 28:30 – Wrap-up + VPL jokes & shameless plug for Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

29 mins

23 October Finished

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