The Courage to Become Yourself: Remembering Who You Are | John R. Miles - EP 786

What if flourishing isn't something you achieve someday—but something you practice in the life you're already living?In this episode, John R. Miles explores the first step toward becoming fully alive: presence. Drawing from three unforgettable conversations with Navy SEAL and Paralympian Dan Cnossen, entrepreneur Blake Mycoskie, and spiritual teacher Gabby Bernstein, he examines the questions that emerge when our old ways of living no longer work.If you've been waiting for life to settle down before you fully show up, chasing achievement in hopes that it will finally make you feel enough, or caring for everyone around you while losing touch with yourself, this episode offers a different path forward.In this conversation, you'll discover: Why the life you're waiting to begin may have already begunHow to stop treating difficult seasons as interruptions instead of your actual training groundWhy success and achievement can never answer the question, "Am I enough?"What it means to remain connected to yourself when the applause grows quietHow self-compassion becomes the foundation for lasting transformationThe powerful question that can reveal whether you've become a safe place to come home toWhy flourishing begins not in some future version of your life, but in this ordinary, imperfect momentAt the heart of this episode are three questions worth carrying into your own life: What are you waiting to begin that has already begun? Who are you when there's nothing left to prove? Was I a safe place to come home to today? Because becoming fully alive isn't about finding another life. It's about inhabiting the one that's already here. Full Shownotes here Get the Free Digital Workbook Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/. Take the 90-second diagnostic to see if you're disappearing. Explore the Show: https://passionstruck.com/starter-packs/. New to Passion Struck? Start with the best episodes curated for you. Connect with John Website: https://johnrmiles.comBook John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/ Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. Passion Struck — #1 Alternative Health Podcast. 85M+ downloads. Disclaimer The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professio

What if the guidance you’ve been searching for has been with you all along? In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to stay connected to something greater than yourself—even during grief, uncertainty, illness, or life's most overwhelming moments. If you've ever wondered whether you're truly alone, struggled to find peace in difficult seasons, or sensed that there is a deeper wisdom available to you, this conversation will give you practical tools to access it. John welcomes Suzanne Giesemann back to Passion Struck. A former Navy Commander and aide to the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff turned evidential medium and spiritual teacher, Suzanne shares insights from her new book, Always Connected, and explains why our connection to spirit is never lost—even when we forget it. In this conversation, you'll learn:The overlooked practice that helps create a deeper connection to intuition and spiritHow to use Suzanne's three-minute "SIP of the Divine" method—even if meditation feels impossibleHow to distinguish genuine guidance from fear, doubt, and imaginationWhy adversity and physical challenges can become profound spiritual teachersWhat evidence-based mediumship reveals about grief, healing, and life beyond deathPractical ways to navigate disappointment, self-worth struggles, and uncertainty with greater peaceSuzanne brings together military discipline, spiritual insight, and a grounded approach to the unseen. Whether you're exploring these ideas for the first time or have been walking this path for years, this conversation is a reminder that connection is not something you create—it is something you remember .And perhaps the most important truth of all: even in your hardest moments, you are never alone. For full show notes, resources, and Suzanne’s new book, visit the episode page. Download the companion workbook. If you liked this episode, go back and listen to Suzanne’s first appearance on Passion Struck (Episode 622). Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/. Take the 90-second diagnostic to see if you're disappearing. Explore the Show: https://passionstruck.com/starter-packs/. New to Passion Struck? Start with the best episodes curated for you. Connect with John Website: https://johnrmiles.comBook John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/ Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. Passion Struck — #1 Alternative Health Podcast. 85M+ downloads. Disclaimer The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professio

Today’s episode will change how you think about your body — and how you relate to yourself every single day. Do you ever look in the mirror and feel immediate criticism or shame? Do you succeed in life but still feel at war with your body? Or maybe you’ve tried everything — diets, workouts, positive affirmations — but nothing seems to create lasting peace. According to today’s guest, the problem isn’t your body. It’s your relationship with it. In this powerful conversation, John R. Miles sits down with Whitney Otto — executive coach, former therapist, World Champion rower, and Olympic alternate. Drawing from her new book Body Image Inside Out (co-authored with Deb Schachter), Whitney reveals a revolutionary inside-out approach to body image healing. In this episode, you'll learn: Why body image struggles have almost nothing to do with how you actually lookHow negative body image becomes a hidden container for overwhelming emotions like fear, grief, and lonelinessThe real cost of being at war with your body — and why it affects every area of your lifeThe powerful BodySelf Muscles (awareness, curiosity, and self-compassion) that actually create lasting changeThe Body Image Rotary framework and how to exit the cycle of self-criticismHow to turn jealousy into a teacher that reveals your deepest desiresWhy relational mirrors shape how you feel in your body — and how to choose better onesSimple daily practices (including what to do in the closet) that build a kinder relationship with yourselfWhy high performers and athletes often struggle the most — and what actually helpsThe one profound question that can shift everything: “What are you feeling?”This conversation offers a compassionate roadmap for moving from self-judgment to self-understanding, showing that flourishing begins not by changing our bodies, but by changing the relationship we have with them. As Whitney reminds us, our bodies are often carrying stories that our minds have not yet found the words to tell. Passion Struck is the #1 Health and Wellness Podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering. Limited Time Offers: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/PASSIONSTRUCK Function Health: functionhealth.com/PASSION or use gift code PASSION25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. FODZYME: Get 30% off your first order at ICanEatAgain.com/PASSIONSTRUCK Full Show Notes Download the Digital Workbook Learn more about Whitney Otto: Website: https://www.bodyimageinsideout.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/whitney-otto/ Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/. Take the 90-second diagnostic to see if you're disappearing. Explore the Show: https://passionstruck.com/starter-packs/. New to Passion Struck? Start with the best episodes curated for you. Connect with John Website: https://johnrmiles.comBook John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/Substack:

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with bestselling author, workplace culture expert, and leadership researcher Adrian Gostick to explore one of the most overlooked forces shaping organizations today: the gratitude gap—the disconnect between how appreciated leaders believe their people feel and how valued employees actually experience their work. Drawing from decades of research involving hundreds of thousands of employees and leaders, Adrian reveals why recognition is far more than a leadership skill—it is a fundamental human need. Together, John and Adrian examine why people don't simply want praise; they want evidence that they matter. Their conversation explores how unexpressed appreciation quietly fuels anxiety, disengagement, loneliness, and burnout, while cultures rooted in visible gratitude unlock trust, innovation, resilience, and extraordinary performance. John and Adrian also discuss why workplace anxiety has reached unprecedented levels, how leaders unintentionally create fear through uncertainty, and why the best managers act less like supervisors and more like stewards of human potential. Through compelling stories, practical frameworks, and decades of behavioral research, they show how recognition, empathy, and purpose can transform both organizations and the lives of the people within them. In this episode, you'll learn: Why leaders consistently overestimate how appreciated their employees feelHow the "gratitude gap" silently undermines engagement, trust, and performanceWhy recognition is a biological and psychological need—not simply a management techniqueHow uncertainty fuels workplace anxiety and what great leaders do differentlyWhy people perform at their best when they know their work contributes to something larger than themselvesThe difference between generic praise and meaningful recognition that changes behaviorHow situational leadership helps leaders meet the unique needs of every individualWhy empathy, curiosity, and knowing people's stories are becoming essential leadership skillsPractical ways to create cultures where people feel seen, valued, and motivated to contributeHow leading with gratitude strengthens resilience, retention, innovation, and organizational performanceThis conversation offers a practical roadmap for closing the gap between good intentions and lived experience, showing why the organizations that thrive aren't simply those with the best strategies, but those where people consistently experience that they matter. Passion Struck is the #1 Health and Wellness Podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering. Limited Time Offers: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/PASSIONSTRUCKFunction Health: functionhealth.com/PASSION or use gift code PASSION25 for a $25 credit toward your membership.FODZYME: Get 30% off your first order at ICanEatAgain.com/PASSIONSTRUCKFull Show Notes Download the Digital Workbook Learn more about Adrian Gostick: Website: https://adriangostick.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adriangostick/X:

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with internationally acclaimed speaker, activist, and best-selling author Spencer West to explore the journey of breaking free from external expectations and overcoming identity distortion. Drawing from his remarkable life—including climbing Mount Kilimanjaro on his hands—Spencer shares why so many of us unknowingly build lives around inherited definitions of success and why safety often becomes the greatest obstacle to authenticity. Together, John and Spencer examine why belonging without authenticity ultimately leaves us feeling empty, how identity becomes distorted over time, and why flourishing begins the moment we stop asking who the world wants us to be and start asking who we truly are. Their conversation explores the psychological mechanics of what Spencer calls "the trap," the profound difference between simple belonging and true mattering, and how he redefined his disability from a medical circumstance into a core pillar of his identity. Spencer also introduces practical frameworks from his new book, Breaking Free, including how to find your personal spotlight, cultivate a sense of play, and pivot from a life of passive passion to one of deep, systemic purpose. In this episode, you'll learn: Why so many people fall into the trap of living a safe, uninspired life instead of an authentic one.The critical distinction between simple belonging and true mattering, illustrated by Spencer's childhood gym and cheerleading experiences.How identity distortion occurs when we shelve our authentic selves to meet external structures.Spencer's transformative experience in Kenya that redefined his disability into a superpower and calling.What "the trap" looks like in daily life and how to recognize when you are caught in a cage of your own design.How to find your personal spotlight through low-stakes creative exploration and intentional play.The evolutionary shift from personal passion to systemic purpose, using the context of his historic ascent of Mount Kilimanjaro.The symbol of the cairn and how we all have the capacity to serve as navigational markers for others.Spencer's keys to impactful public speaking: knowing your audience completely and sharing universal human lessons.Why embracing vulnerability and mistakes on stage creates deeper human connection.This conversation offers a powerful roadmap for understanding why we become who we are, how to reject a safe but uninspired life, and what it takes to intentionally build a life focused on authentic purpose. Passion Struck is the #1 Health and Wellness Podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to helping people live intentionally, unlock human potential, and create lives filled with meaning, purpose, and mattering. Limited Time Offers: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/PASSIONSTRUCKFunction Health: functionhealth.com/PASSION or use gift code PASSION25 for a $25 credit toward your membership.FODZYME: Get 30% off your first order at ICanEatAgain.com/PASSIONSTRUCK Full Show Notes Download the Digital Workbook (Ignited Life Article) Learn more about Spencer West: Website: