Everybody’s Faking It (Even You)

The Brothers are back — and this week they’re tearing into the fairy tales, Disney dreams, and “life lessons” that turned out to be complete nonsense. From Snow White’s dodgy consent to Willy Wonka’s psychedelic child abuse and Elf’saccidental life coaching, it’s a deep dive into the movies that shaped our childhoods — for better or worse. Colm reveals a beautiful real-life love story from Venice, Justin opens up about the film that changed how he saw grief forever, and Rebecca manages to keep the lads (mostly) on track. Expect laughs, heart, and a touch of chaos. 🎙️ New shows every Thursday and Sunday — honesty, humour, and a little heresy. ⏱️ Chapter Timings (Suggested):00:00 – The beanie, the dwarfs & Disney’s dirty secrets 05:00 – Willy Wonka’s emotional damage & childhood illusions 08:30 – When real life feels like a movie 10:00 – Love, Venice, and the most romantic story ever told 11:00 – The films that left scars (and inspiration) 15:00 – Grief, legacy & The Big Chill 17:00 – Finding meaning in Elf & the art that moves us 20:00 – Why sharing art is the most human thing we do Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone’s chasing balance — but what if the secret is learning to live in chaos? This week’s Aftershow gets philosophical (and messy) as Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan unpack the cult of calm. From meditation fails to emotional meltdowns, they rip into the myth that life’s supposed to feel peaceful. Colm admits he’s allergic to silence, Justin defends stillness (badly), and Rebecca proves she’s the only one who actually understands mindfulness — or at least can pronounce it. It’s loud, honest, and unexpectedly therapeutic — in that “you’re not alone in being a disaster” kind of way. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday, 9 November 2025. Everybody’s telling you to calm down — but what if that’s the problem? In this episode, the Not So Christian Brothers dismantle the modern obsession with peace, balance, and “wellness.” Colm’s wound up, Justin’s zen (for five seconds), and Rebecca’s calling them both out. It’s the Aftershow that proves chaos isn’t failure — it’s the natural state of being human. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & “the cult of calm” 02:00 – Colm vs stillness: “Silence is suspicious” 04:30 – Rebecca on burnout & balance myths 07:00 – Justin’s meditation confessions 09:00 – Why chaos might be more honest than calm 11:00 – Mindfulness, missteps & manic Mondays 13:00 – Final thoughts & next week’s tease Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This one hits hard. In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — drop the jokes (mostly) and dive into the emotional minefield of family, childhood, and guilt. Justin remembers being left behind in a house that didn’t feel safe, watching Colm build a snowman through the window. Colm swears he doesn’t remember doing it — and Rebecca isn’t letting him off the hook. What starts as a nostalgic story becomes a brutally honest conversation about survival, neglect, loneliness, and why Irish families never really talk about love — just guilt. It’s raw, revealing, and somehow still hilarious. 🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025. Ever carried guilt from your childhood? Or blamed your brother for turning you into who you are? Colm and Justin open old wounds (and old snowmen), with Rebecca playing referee. It’s part therapy, part sibling rivalry, and 100% Not So Christian. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & the “Snowman Story” 02:00 – Childhood memories vs selective amnesia 04:00 – Guilt, leaving home & who got left behind 06:00 – Rebecca calls out Irish emotional repression 08:00 – Sibling rivalry & the fight to be seen 10:00 – Family dysfunction, loneliness & love 12:00 – The red-pen parents & emotional grammar lessons 13:00 – Wrap-up, chaos & next week’s tease Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are we healing — or just performing pain for attention? This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan get brutally real about the age of emotional exhibitionism. From crying selfies and mental health influencers to therapy addiction and Irish repression, no one’s safe. Colm thinks we’ve replaced resilience with victimhood, Justin argues for real healing, and Rebecca calls out the hypocrisy on both sides. It’s funny, uncomfortable, and more honest than most therapy sessions. Everyone’s sad. Everyone’s online. And everyone’s telling you about it. Colm’s had enough of performative misery. Justin’s defending therapy. Rebecca’s trying to make sense of it all. It’s Irish honesty at its finest — sharp, savage, and weirdly comforting. If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at a crying influencer (or been one), this episode’s for you. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday — subscribe now so you never miss the chaos, comedy, or confession. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – 02:30: Oversharing, misery & the therapy epidemic02:30 – 06:00: Colm vs Justin — resilience or repression?06:00 – 09:30: Rebecca on empathy burnout & online sadness09:30 – 12:00: Irish mental health, male silence & dark humour12:00 – 15:30: Crying selfies & trauma as content15:30 – 18:00: When therapy becomes a brand18:00 – 21:00: Real talk — loneliness, loss & living offline21:00 – End: Sunday tease + a final jab at influencers 🎙 Next Episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025 📢 New episodes every Thursday and Sunday — on Spotify, Acast, Apple, and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sunday’s supposed to be holy — but not here. In this week’s Aftershow, Colm, Justin, and Rebecca dive straight into scandal, corruption, and why humans can’t handle power. It starts with Beckham’s affair, jumps to Epstein’s empire, and somehow ends up at Paul McCartney, Margaret Thatcher, and mommy fetishes. 💬 What they actually get into: Is Rebecca Loos brave or just bored?Why money, sex, and power always corrupt — and who’s worst at itJustin admits being “a power-hungry asshole” in his twentiesRebecca schools the lads on women’s real motivationsColm insists he’s “the least corrupt man alive” (no one believes him)And yes… it ends with another lesbian joke This is Not So Christian Brothers — unholy, uncensored, and impossible to stop listening to. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday 19 October 2025. Power, sex, greed — and David Beckham’s Sunday roast. Colm’s defending men again, Justin’s confessing to corruption, and Rebecca’s running circles around them both. It’s filthy, funny, and far too honest for a Sunday. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Sunday blasphemy & Mass talk 02:00 – Beckham, Rebecca Loos & revenge stories 04:00 – Epstein, Ghislaine & the corruption triangle: money, power, sex 06:00 – Men’s “three pillars” vs women’s “three truths” 07:30 – Justin admits his power addiction 09:00 – Paul McCartney, ego, and artistic narcissism 11:00 – Can women be corrupted — or are they worse when they are? 12:00 – Margaret Thatcher, affairs & fantasies 13:00 – Lesbian callback, chaos, and sign-off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.