Not so Christian Brothers
Not so Christian Brothers
An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between.
It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.
With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.
These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.
Hosted on Acast. See acast....
Brothers, Guilt & The Snowman: When Family Messes You Up
explicitThis one hits hard. In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — drop the jokes (mostly) and dive into the emotional minefield of family, childhood, and guilt. Justin remembers being left behind in a house that didn’t feel safe, watching Colm build a snowman through the window. Colm swears he doesn’t remember doing it — and Rebecca isn’t letting him off the hook. What starts as a nostalgic story becomes a brutally honest conversation about survival, neglect, loneliness, and why Irish families never really talk about love — just guilt. It’s raw, revealing, and somehow still hilarious. 🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025. Ever carried guilt from your childhood? Or blamed your brother for turning you into who you are? Colm and Justin open old wounds (and old snowmen), with Rebecca playing referee. It’s part therapy, part sibling rivalry, and 100% Not So Christian. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & the “Snowman Story” 02:00 – Childhood memories vs selective amnesia 04:00 – Guilt, leaving home & who got left behind 06:00 – Rebecca calls out Irish emotional repression 08:00 – Sibling rivalry & the fight to be seen 10:00 – Family dysfunction, loneliness & love 12:00 – The red-pen parents & emotional grammar lessons 13:00 – Wrap-up, chaos & next week’s tease Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12 mins
2 November Finished
Crying for Clicks: Are We All Addicted to Misery?
Are we healing — or just performing pain for attention? This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan get brutally real about the age of emotional exhibitionism. From crying selfies and mental health influencers to therapy addiction and Irish repression, no one’s safe. Colm thinks we’ve replaced resilience with victimhood, Justin argues for real healing, and Rebecca calls out the hypocrisy on both sides. It’s funny, uncomfortable, and more honest than most therapy sessions. Everyone’s sad. Everyone’s online. And everyone’s telling you about it. Colm’s had enough of performative misery. Justin’s defending therapy. Rebecca’s trying to make sense of it all. It’s Irish honesty at its finest — sharp, savage, and weirdly comforting. If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at a crying influencer (or been one), this episode’s for you. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday — subscribe now so you never miss the chaos, comedy, or confession. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – 02:30: Oversharing, misery & the therapy epidemic02:30 – 06:00: Colm vs Justin — resilience or repression?06:00 – 09:30: Rebecca on empathy burnout & online sadness09:30 – 12:00: Irish mental health, male silence & dark humour12:00 – 15:30: Crying selfies & trauma as content15:30 – 18:00: When therapy becomes a brand18:00 – 21:00: Real talk — loneliness, loss & living offline21:00 – End: Sunday tease + a final jab at influencers 🎙 Next Episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025 📢 New episodes every Thursday and Sunday — on Spotify, Acast, Apple, and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
26 mins
30 October Finished
Beckhams, Billionaires & Bullshit: Power, Sex & Corruption
Sunday’s supposed to be holy — but not here. In this week’s Aftershow, Colm, Justin, and Rebecca dive straight into scandal, corruption, and why humans can’t handle power. It starts with Beckham’s affair, jumps to Epstein’s empire, and somehow ends up at Paul McCartney, Margaret Thatcher, and mommy fetishes. 💬 What they actually get into: Is Rebecca Loos brave or just bored?Why money, sex, and power always corrupt — and who’s worst at itJustin admits being “a power-hungry asshole” in his twentiesRebecca schools the lads on women’s real motivationsColm insists he’s “the least corrupt man alive” (no one believes him)And yes… it ends with another lesbian joke This is Not So Christian Brothers — unholy, uncensored, and impossible to stop listening to. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Sunday 19 October 2025. Power, sex, greed — and David Beckham’s Sunday roast. Colm’s defending men again, Justin’s confessing to corruption, and Rebecca’s running circles around them both. It’s filthy, funny, and far too honest for a Sunday. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Sunday blasphemy & Mass talk 02:00 – Beckham, Rebecca Loos & revenge stories 04:00 – Epstein, Ghislaine & the corruption triangle: money, power, sex 06:00 – Men’s “three pillars” vs women’s “three truths” 07:30 – Justin admits his power addiction 09:00 – Paul McCartney, ego, and artistic narcissism 11:00 – Can women be corrupted — or are they worse when they are? 12:00 – Margaret Thatcher, affairs & fantasies 13:00 – Lesbian callback, chaos, and sign-off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
13 mins
26 October Finished
Woke, War & Wives: The World’s Gone Mad (Again)
explicitThis one’s an absolute ride. Colm gets accused of having “lesbian energy,” Justin tries to justify angry men, Rebecca calls out everyone’s hypocrisy — and somehow it all ends with aliens ditching Earth because we’re too boring. The gang dive head-first into: The rise of angry men and the backlash against “woke”Why politics is full of egos and zero compassionGolf wives, patriarchy, and public meltdownsWhether women make better (or worse) leadersHow the first murder — Cain & Abel — set the tone for humanity It’s blunt, funny, a bit mad, and exactly why you listen to Not So Christian Brothers. No filters. No safe takes. Just three voices tearing into the week’s chaos. 🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday. 🗓 This episode: Thursday 23 October 2025. If you think the world’s lost the plot — you’re not alone. Colm’s ranting about militant lesbians, Justin’s defending dictators (kind of), and Rebecca’s trying to hold civilisation together. Somehow, it’s educational. Mostly, it’s just unholy fun. Chapter Timings00:00 – Are you a lesbian, Colm? (and other casual chaos) 05:00 – Angry men, woke culture & the incel problem 10:00 – Rory McIlroy, golf wives & patriarchal nonsense 15:00 – Putin, Trump, and why power always corrupts 20:00 – Cain & Abel → The first murder was family business 25:00 – Aliens are bored & AI is smarter than us 28:30 – Wrap-up + VPL jokes & shameless plug for Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
29 mins
23 October Finished
Fueled by Anger or Freed by Forgiveness? The Aftershow Gets Personal
explicitIt’s Sunday, and the hangover from Thursday’s episode on forgiveness is still brewing. Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan are back — a little raw, a little caffeinated, and absolutely not ready to forgive. From Taylor Swift and Mariah Carey to business betrayals, heartbreak, and hospital trauma, this aftershow turns reflection into revelation. Colm argues that anger fuels success, while Justin opens up about his past, therapy, and losing his son — and how forgiveness saved him. Rebecca keeps the chaos grounded as the conversation drifts from revenge to redemption, Catholic guilt to Protestant freedom, and even Trump’s ego to South Dublin snobbery. This is Not So Christian Brothers at its best: raw, real, and roaring with uncomfortable truths. 🎙 New episodes every Thursday and Sunday — subscribe now so you never miss the chaos, comedy, or confession. Ever been told to “let it go”? Colm thinks that’s nonsense. Justin says forgiveness is the only way to survive. Rebecca’s just trying to stop them from throwing microphones. In this brutally honest Aftershow, the trio dive into what really drives people — anger, pain, or peace? From family and faith to fame and failure, it’s the episode that proves growth doesn’t come from calm... it comes from chaos. Whether you’re the grudge-holder or the peacekeeper, this one will hit home. ⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – 01:00: Mariah Carey, Taylor Swift & the power of pop queens01:00 – 03:00: Forgiveness recap — Colm’s “never forgive” manifesto03:00 – 06:00: Anger as strength vs forgiveness as freedom06:00 – 09:00: Justin’s powerful story — grief, loss, and letting go09:00 – 11:30: Does anger make you successful?11:30 – 13:00: Rebecca opens up about bullying and resilience13:00 – 15:00: Irish education, class, and the South Dublin struggle15:00 – 17:30: Religion, repression, and the guilt that shapes us17:30 – End: Sunday scaries, leadership, and life’s endless lessons 🗓 Release Date: Sunday, 19 October 2025 🎙 Next Episode: Thursday, 23 October 2025 🔔 New episodes drop every Thursday and Sunday — follow on Spotify, Acast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
18 mins
19 October Finished