Zandra Rhodes: Self-belief, workaholics, and sentimental hoarding

What more do you want from life? What more do you want for yourself? Award-winning journalist and author Poorna Bell reckons it’s time to start really asking ourselves these questions. In this chat with Fearne, Poorna explains why it’s important to aim for goals you set for yourself, not the ones set by society. They talk about why challenging the narrative that women become invisible as they age is so important, and why we should be turning to elders for life wisdom. Poorna also reflects on what she wishes she’d known about marriage before her wedding, and how we can all strengthen our relationships with our parents and children. Poorna’s book, She Wanted More, is out now. If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like: Poorna’s first Happy Place episode Ashley James Paloma Faith Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How are we feeling gang? What are you happy about, and what’s making you not so happy? Fearne’s back with more chatter about what’s putting her and the Happy Place team in a good mood this week, and what can absolutely get in the bin. This is a lovely little space for all of us to explore what’s been on our minds. Want to join the chat? Send us a voicenote, DM, or comment on Instagram @happyplaceofficial! In this chat, Fearne covers: -Feeling stupid when you’re with really clever people -Why we should properly get into tree hugging -Painting by numbers to get away from screens -Not RSVPing being rude... but also don’t say yes if you’re not going to go -Bringing back letter writing -One of Team Happy Place reckoning Harry Hill is fit*   *watch the Stewart Lee episode of Harry Hill’s podcast on Spotify to see the moment in question Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do we change our hair when we want to start over? Celebrity hair stylist Chris Appleton knows that when someone sits in his chair, he has their future confidence in his hands. In this chat with Fearne, Chris explains that everyone from the Kardashians to cancer patients have opened up to him about their insecurities, and he’s seen the profound impact that looking more like yourself on the outside can have on how you feel about yourself on the inside. He’s also fascinated by the self-limiting beliefs people have about who they are. Think you’re not classy enough for a sleek bob? Not cool enough to dye your hair? Chris says think again! Chris has dealt with a lot of his own shame and fears too. He was bullied at school, struggled to acknowledge his sexuality, and had huge imposter syndrome when he first arrived in Hollywood, so has lots of thoughts on finding your true self again. Plus, Chris gives Fearne a little consultation, and he reckons she can go much bolder with her hair... Chris’ book, Your Roots Don’t Define You, is out now. CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains frank conversation about suicidal ideation, so take care while listening. If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like:   Afua Hirsch   Caroline Hirons   Olivia Atwood   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Fed up of constantly striving for ultimate happiness? Fearne’s dropping into your feed every week for some far more realistic chat about what’s making her feel great, and what’s making her feel rubbish. This is a safe space for all of us to get stuff off our chests. No judgement here! Want to join the chat? Send us a voicenote, DM, or comment on Instagram @happyplaceofficial! So, what’s putting us in our happy place this week... and what things really are not? In this chat, Fearne covers: -Why changing your mind and opinions is a good thing -How to make cervical screenings less scary -Why trying new things is important even if you can’t really be arsed -Boxing being a fun outlet for a bit of anger -Being ok with saying “I don’t know” -Moving through extreme panic and anxiety -Coming to terms with it not being warm in the UK for A WHILE yet ...plus Fearne gets an unexpected call from her son Rex! Not seen the cervical screening Instagram post? Here it is! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re a bimbo. A nag. Too mumsy. Too bossy. Ever had any of those labels put on you? Far from harmless words, Ashley James is clear they all work to shrink women and girls. In this chat with Fearne, Ashley recalls her first experiences of street harassment, and the way she victim blamed herself. They also explore the shame that keeps women silent about their altered bodies after giving birth; Ashley talks about her own post-partum body, including the reality of piles, prolapse, and vaginismus. Wondering if marriage is right for you? Ashley runs through her pros and cons. Plus, are we still allowed to watch and enjoy wildly problematic films like Grease...? Ashley’s book, Bimbo, is out on February 12th. If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like:   Gabor Maté   Louise Thompson   Jane Goodall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.