Ep. 582: Are You Pushing People Away? Plus an Easy Way to Make a Room More Inviting Image

Ep. 582: Are You Pushing People Away? Plus an Easy Way to Make a Room More Inviting

15 April - 35 mins
Podcast Series Happier with Gretchen Rubin

We discuss the seven deadly sins of disconnection—the habits that push others away. We also share an easy hack for making an environment more appealing, and answer a listener's question about reality TV.

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