Bonded by Evolution: How Attraction Really Works | Paul Eastwick - EP 731

What if Henry David Thoreau wasn’t escaping work but redesigning it? In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with author and thought leadership expert Ken Lizotte to explore his transformative new book, Walden for Hire: Business Lessons from Henry David Thoreau. Together, they dismantle the myth of Thoreau as a solitary hermit removed from society. Instead, they reveal a disciplined builder, an innovative entrepreneur, and a master architect of intentional living. Lizotte reveals that Thoreau’s time at Walden wasn't a withdrawal; it was an act of radical design. By simplifying his needs and aligning his work with his values, Thoreau reclaimed his authorship. From reinventing pencil manufacturing to building a thriving surveying practice, he proved that meaningful work and ethical success are not opposing forces—they are deeply intertwined. At the heart of this episode is a powerful reframe: A life of quiet desperation is often a life disconnected from meaning. The solution isn't to do more; it is to live more deliberately. Drawing from philosophy, history, and modern psychology, this conversation offers a blueprint for anyone questioning the true cost of their current path—and seeking a way to work without betraying their soul. 🔗 Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/ethical-entrepreneurship-henry-david-thoreau/ Explore You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/ Go deeper with companion reflections: https://TheIgnitedLife.net Connect with John (speaking, books, podcast): https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles In This Episode, You Will LearnThe biggest misconception about Thoreau’s relationship with work, productivity, and successHow “quiet desperation” shows up today as burnout, disorientation, and loss of meaningWhat Thoreau meant by “the price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.”Why simplifying your life restores time, attention, and autonomyHow aligning your work with your values strengthens your sense of matteringThe concept of moral independence—and why your livelihood should never require self-betrayalA practical reframe: how to examine your current life and redesign it around what truly mattersSupport the Movement Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. 👉 https://StartMattering.com Disclaimer The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why does modern life feel so "thin and frantic," even when we are more connected than ever? Today, we are venturing into the "Celtic fringe" to sit with the man widely considered the preeminent mythologist of our time. Joining me is New York Times bestselling author Dr. Martin Shaw to discuss his profound new masterwork, Liturgies of the Wild. In this conversation, we move beyond the clinical and the therapeutic to explore the mythic imagination. Martin argues that we are currently suffering from a profound spiritual exhaustion—not because we lack information, but because we have traded devotion for consumption. We dive into the "mosh pit" of story, where Martin reveals why your life isn't a problem to be solved, but an ancient narrative to be lived. From the "Liturgy of the Limit" to the "Ecclesiastical Counter-Magic" required to meet the darkness of our age, this episode is a call to return home to a life of weight, worth, and wonder. If you’ve ever felt like a passenger in a world moving too fast, this episode offers the ancient compass you’ve been looking for. Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web and is consistently recognized among the world's top business and mindset podcasts.Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/liturgies-of-the-wild-martin-shaw/Download a Free Companion Reflection Guide:Connect with John (keynotes, books, podcast): https://linktr.ee/John_R_MilesGet the New York Times Bestseller Liturgies of the Wild: https://drmartinshaw.com/books/In This Episode, You Will LearnThe "Thin and Frantic" Diagnosis: Why excess choice and digital noise are stripping the weight from our souls.The Liturgy of the Limit: Why meaning is found through what we say "no" to, and how the "banks" of the river create the depth of the current.Myth as a Mosh Pit: Why we must stop politely observing our lives and start participating in the "sweat and friction" of our own mythic story.Ecclesiastical Counter-Magic: How to use ritual, story, and awe-filled attention to meet the darkness of the modern world without becoming it.The Discipline of Praise Making: Why maturity is the ability to recognize life as a gift and offer praise even amid the wreckage.Recovering the Ancient Good: How to reconnect with the enduring truths that remain "awe-filled, urgent, and alive" regardless of the era.Support the Movement Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com Disclaimer The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why do so many children feel invisible, even in homes filled with love? Today, on the official launch day of my new children's book, You Matter, Luma, we are diving into the heart of why "mattering" is the most important foundation we can build for the next generation. Joining me is Dr. Gordon Flett, the world’s leading researcher on mattering and author of the groundbreaking paper on "Anti-Mattering." In this conversation, we reveal a startling disconnect: while only 8% of parents think their child might feel they don’t matter, nearly 35% of youth report feeling insignificant or uncertain of their worth. Dr. Flett explains why mattering is a "foundational human need" and how we can bridge this gap to protect our children's mental health. This conversation builds on the You Matter series—featuring leading thinkers like Barry Schwartz, Rebecca Newberger Goldstein, Daniel Coyle, Sonja Lyubomirsky, Harry Reis, and Paul Eastwick—and arrives at a powerful conclusion: Mattering isn’t a luxury. It’s a core human need. If you’ve ever questioned your place, struggled with invisibility, or wondered how to help others feel seen—this episode offers both scientific clarity and human hope. Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web and is consistently recognized among the world's top business and mindset podcasts. Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/feeling-like-you-matter-gordon-flett/ Download a Free Companion Reflection Guide: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/you-matter-luma-intrinsic-worth Connect with John (keynotes, books, podcast): https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles Get the New Children’s Book You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/ Learn More About Gordon Flett: https://www.yorku.ca/lamarsh/gord-flett/ In This Episode, You Will LearnMattering is foundational, not optional. It underpins mental health, relationships, and identity.The Difference Between Love and Mattering: Why a child can be loved but still feel like they don't count.Feeling unseen is deeply painful. It can manifest as shame, withdrawal, or a belief that one’s presence doesn’t count.Childhood is the critical window. Early signals of attention and care shape lifelong self-worth.Small moments matter most. Being noticed, listened to, and valued creates a lasting psychological impact.Mattering can be created. Through attention, service, and connection, we can restore it in ourselves and others.Support the Movement Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com Disclaimer The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, John explains how to reclaim your intrinsic worth by transitioning from the performance-based "Duck Syndrome" to becoming a Mattering Mirror

In this powerful episode of the Passion Struck podcast, John is joined by world-renowned happiness expert Sonja Lyubomirsky and the preminent relationship researcher Harry Reis