He Hid €18K Debt… Do We Pause the Wedding?
7 September - 10 mins explicitIt’s Monday dilemmas time again, and Shane dive's into one big one this week.
A listener thought she and her boyfriend were on the same page after nearly four years talking deposits, house hunting, even engagement. Then she spots a WhatsApp message on his laptop… and discovers he’s hiding nearly €18,000 in debt.
Is it the debt itself, or the fact he kept it secret while planning a future together? Shane and Katie unpack shame, trust, “who’s right and who’s wrong”, and why communication (not miscommunication) is what makes or breaks relationships especially when money is involved.