Tell self-limiting beliefs to bugger off: Live from Chiswick Festival

Back in the noughties, Miquita Oliver thought Fearne Cotton was an irritatingly gorgeous, successful presenter – everything she wasn’t. Fearne was jealous Miquita was part of the TV cool gang. In reality? Fearne worried she was an unsophisticated nerd, and Miquita was feeling like the fat, ugly sidekick.   In this episode, live from the Happy Place Festival, Fearne and Miquita chat for the first time in decades, finally able to see that it was press cruelty that created their feud. They talk through how to cope if you feel projection, assumption, or a misunderstanding have created a rift between you and a friend.   Miquita also explores why she felt the need to drink to stay in a haze for much of her younger years, and why getting curious about why she felt like sh*t was the first step to getting her life back on track.   Plus: how to dream bigger for yourself, and why adults need to play more! If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like: Matt Edmondson and Mollie King Ruth Langsford Ashley James Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s probably a bit too much pressure on reaching a definitive state of happiness isn’t there? It’s not realistic guys. So Fearne’s dropping into your feed every week for some honest chat about what’s making her (and you lot) feel great, and what’s making us all feel completely rubbish. This is a cosy little corner for all of us to explore what’s been on our minds, what’s been getting us down, inspiring us, and making us laugh. Want to join the chat? Send us a voicenote, DM, or comment on Instagram @happyplaceofficial! In this chat, Fearne explores: -Running – both the joy of it, and the sadness when you can’t because you’re injured -In a similar vein: why skipping is so fun... but also makes you pee yourself -The little interactions with strangers that make your day -‘Friends’ chatting behind your back -Whether we’ve started hibernating for winter a little too early   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all got quirks. Tom Read Wilson realised early on that no one else was going to celebrate his differences if he didn’t own them himself. In this chat with Fearne, live from the Happy Place Festival, Tom explains how he learnt to honour his eclectic personality. Fearne and Tom both have a history of extreme people pleasing, so they share what they’ve learnt about self-advocating and getting good at uncomfortable confrontation. Why does turning 40 seem to be when the real honesty kicks in? The I’m A Celeb jungle had a profound impact on Tom, particularly the digital detox part... he explores the huge physical and mental impact giving up his phone has had. Plus, Tom delights in finding the perfect whimsical words, and wonders that language is the key to unlocking better mental health. Tom’s new children’s book, Pricklepaper’s Letter Magic, is out on the 24th of September. If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like: Todd Rose Joe Lycett Ruby Wax Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s been going on for you this week? What are you happy about, and what’s really not floating your boat? Fearne’s here with more chat about what’s putting her, Team Happy Place, and you lot in a good mood, and what’s feeling a bit heavier too. This is our space to explore what’s been on our minds. Want to join the chat? Send us a voicenote, DM, or comment on Instagram @happyplaceofficial! In this chat, Fearne explores: -The wholesome dream of growing your own food -Finally being paid to create the stuff you love -Being in awe of Marilyn Monroe -Sending your kid to high school when they’re not ready to cope -Why there’s always something on the Being A Grown Up to do list -The dull details of buying new white goods -The people who insist on being tw*ts to strangers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Writer Caitlin Moran's anxiety started when she was 13, when she accidentally let a family secret slip. That anxiety kept her wired for the next 30 years. In this chat with Fearne, Caitlin explains how choosing to be hopeful and see the good in life means she’s now two years anxiety-free. They also talk about how social media has drastically altered our perception of reality, and just how unkind (or kind!) a place the world really is. Angrily posting on Instagram at 3am? It’s not going to change society, but volunteering to pick letter... well... that might! Caitlin talks about the severe dread she feels when meeting up with her best friends; do you have that social anxiety too? Because Fearne does... Plus, how could presuming everyone’s having a really bad day make you a happier person? Caitlin’s book, How To Be Hopeful, is out on September 17th. If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like: Todd Rose Lucas Jones Nicole LaPera Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.